So i recently added an old partner from school in facebook,i haven't see her for 10 years,she is very cute now and i want to ask her out but since i only have contact with her through facebook,i don't know how to do it? any ideas on how i can get her number
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So i'm going to a birthday party of a girl i really like in a bar,but probably she's gonna be with all of her friends there,so is going to be difficult trying to talk to her,any advice on how i can try to talk to her,and what topics should i use since is her birthday
lol what?[QUOTE="hell_player"]
[QUOTE="Flubbbs"]
dont forget to pull out
Flubbbs
cmon you know what im talking about.. thats my advice
I don't think i will able to do that if i don't even date her bro...[QUOTE="hell_player"] but she though i was for real and text that her mom doesn't let herSword-Demonand how old is this girl exactly? :? she's in college, correct? why is she asking her mommy for permission? and Why does her mom allow her to go out drinking and partying, but not sleep where / with who she wants? the two kind of go hand in hand.. She is 20 but i think she made that excuse because she got scared because i told her like if was true after she text about the mom thing i told her i was just kidding,i just wanted to see her reaction,that it wasn't a good one...
Essentially 45 minutes each way. I had to go to her house, then back to mine, then repeat when we were done for the day. That's a THREE HOUR commute per day. That's nuts.[QUOTE="Pirate700"]
[QUOTE="NaveedLife"]
40 minutes is a long way? Â if you are loking for a good person closer than that, that may be really hard. Â I guess its depends where you live.
NaveedLife
well hell, if you had to bring her back to your place every day too, then yeah. Â Why not meet eachother halfway at places to hang out, go to her place (and stay there), and if you are old enough have her stay the night too? Â
Well in my case it takes one hour if you use the bus but on taxi or car just half hourI think she make that as an panic excuse because when i text her at first i didn't told her that it was a joke then after she told me that her mom didn't let her i kinda know it was a lie so i told her tht i was just kiddingJust being honest, dude, it doesn't sound like she's interested to me. Again, I'd let it go and text her about it one last time the following week and just ask if she wants to go and if so, what would she like to do. If you get another excuse, I'd just move on with life. I think she is interested but the joke maybe scared her a bit because,she didn't say no at first everything was going fine until i made that stupid joke :x[QUOTE="hell_player"]
[QUOTE="Pirate700"]You guys are in college and she still told you her mom doesn't allow her to do something? Any adult who's parents are still in complete control of their life...RUN.
Pirate700
Well technically this is the first time i ask her for a more "formal date", because when we're in college we always hang out she even invite me for a coffee last weekYou guys are in college and she still told you her mom doesn't allow her to do something? Any adult who's parents are still in complete control of their life...RUN. I think she make that as an panic excuse because when i text her at first i didn't told her that it was a joke then after she told me that her mom didn't let her i kinda know it was a lie so i told her tht i was just kidding[QUOTE="hell_player"]
[QUOTE="Opi0us"]
Um, you could try one more time, but if she was interested she would have said yes and wouldn't have come up with excuses.
Pirate700
Well technically this is the first time i ask her for a more "formal date", because when we're in college we always hang out she even invite me for a coffee last weekUm, you could try one more time, but if she was interested she would have said yes and wouldn't have come up with excuses.
Opi0us
What do you mean with it strained the relationship?The lengthy commute. It wears on you and starts to become a chore to see each other because of the length of the commute. Maybe you're right but i really like her i think that at least i should give it a change, in fact this is the first time i met a girl with so much in common with me[QUOTE="hell_player"]
[QUOTE="Pirate700"]That changes everything. The last girl I dated, she lived like 40 mins away, and trust me, it really wears on you. Even when you have a car. She and I were best friends before we started dating and even then, the commute was just killer. It really strained the relationship. Honestly, try to find a girl who's within a few minutes of you.
Pirate700
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