How can I change my reputation as fast as possible?

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#1 action1234
Member since 2006 • 958 Posts

So I'm sure alot of you here know me from posting about my social problems on this board. I've been going slow these past few weeks at schooland I want people to really notice me and not think of me as "the shy guy", but maybe just the simple regular guy. How can I do this fast? Do you think it's really necessary to smile at people? I don't wanna do anything crazy to show off. So what do you guys think I should do to show people a different image?

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#2 spazzx625
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Four words: Eagle tattoo on face.
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#3 Atmanix
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The best advice I can give you is to not pretend you're someone you're not. Find friends who like you for who you are and stop caring what other people think. I know people hear this a lot but once you're out of high school none of these things matter anymore.

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#4 ZombiefiedZomB
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Do you socialize with a lot of people or do you stay to yourself ?
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#5 Duckman5
Member since 2006 • 18934 Posts

If you are known as the shy person then start talking to people. Simple.

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#6 pete_merlin
Member since 2007 • 6098 Posts

become friends with everyone, its what i did and suddenly I had about 90 friends lol last year of school was fun :P

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#7 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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Beat the **** out of the first person to step in your way. Oh wait, I'm still thinking prison rules...
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#8 monkey_monger
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Just start talking to people. Try and make friends with a popular guy, then it will take off.
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#9 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Drive a harley down the halls of your school. Shy guy no more!

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#10 pete_merlin
Member since 2007 • 6098 Posts
Just start talking to people. Try and make friends with a popular guy, then it will take off.monkey_monger
ah true, I got best friends with this crazy guy and before I knew it, the past normal version of myself was gone and I become weird as hell, in a good way. I remember once we went to school dressed as bears lol good times
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#11 rawsavon
Member since 2004 • 40001 Posts

First impressions are quite strong...it requires a great deal for people to change their mind about ANYTHING or ANYONE
-see cognitive dissonance-

In other words, you will have to act in an opposite manner (to how you are perceived now) for an extended period or inan extreme enough way for the cognitive dissonance to to become great enough for people to 'change' their opinion of you

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#12 mAArdman
Member since 2003 • 1612 Posts

Buy a pair of slanties, steel claws, a blunderbuss replica, and wear them all at once preferably while being covered with glow in the dark paint. Don't forget to breakdance whenever possible. You'll become a respectable social entity in no time.

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#13 Pirate700
Member since 2008 • 46465 Posts

Beat up someone as soon as you get back. You gotta assert your dominance.

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#14 mrbojangles25
Member since 2005 • 61296 Posts

honestly?

just stop giving a damn. I am still self-conscious, but not even 90% of what I was during high school, and I am much happier because of it.

besides, its just high school...people think it lasts, but it doesnt...people move on, go to college, get jobs. So dont worry about it, man, just get over your shyness by the time youre done with high school and it will be all right.

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#15 juden41
Member since 2010 • 4447 Posts
Yeah, you can smile at people, just say 'hi.' You don't have to do anything big, take it slow, but maybe push yourself just a little bit. Just greet people, say "how's it going?" and then slowly people will warm up to you.
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#16 Ghost_702
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Ride into class on a harley. Rev the bike. Get off. Pop your leather jacket collar. Smack your gum while adjusting your aviators. Go up to the hottest chick in the class. Kiss that chick while pulling her back with one arm. Put her back in her desk. Say your name like the sly guy you are. Sit down. Place feet on desk in front of you while leaning back with one arm over the back of your chair. With free hand point to the teacher and say, "Carry on". Now if that doesn't turn some heads your way, then I don't know what will. In all honesty though, just start talking to people. i'm sure you have to do group projects, talk to your group and bring up some conversation about something besides school, like movies or music.
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#17 nocoolnamejim
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Reputations can be pretty hard to shake. Many people don't like to reevaluate previously held opinions, because it means that they may have to admit being wrong before and most people don't enjoy admitting, even to themselves, that they were wrong about anything. If often takes numerous instances of a change before people will start to reorient their viewpoints. If you stick with something though, eventually it will happen.
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#18 xTheExploited
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Make up a bunch of lies about yourself. Talk to someone, when they ask about your life tell them these awesome lies. Stuff spreads around pretty quickly in high school. You will be dating the head cheerleader in no time! :)
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#19 markop2003
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You could try doing what my friend did a couple days ago, wearing shorts and fishnets.
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#20 -Fromage-
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Beat up nerds. People will be amazed by how tough you are.
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#21 mike_me
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-see cognitive dissonance-rawsavon
OMG! This completely proves my point that, console fanboys, have this frame of mind. They don't have enough money to buy the 'other systems' so they convince themselves that the other systems suck, etc.
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#22 Ninja-Bear
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Burst into song as and when you please. :)
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#23 tocool340
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Finding the biggest, baddest, mofo around and crack your fist across his face. Then once he's defeated, put your foot on top of the guy like they do on that beer commercial with the captain, then proclaim yourself as the new badass on the block..... Or you can join in on many in-school and/or after school activities and win awards to somewhat boost your popularity. Preferably, sports...
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#24 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]-see cognitive dissonance-mike_me
OMG! This completely proves my point that, console fanboys, have this frame of mind. They don't have enough money to buy the 'other systems' so they convince themselves that the other systems suck, etc.

That is true of all things...though it is not ONLY cognitive dissonance in that case -if they had not bought a system yet, then it would be -but having a purchased a system, they now have a vested interest...now other things play a role...things like rationalization "It is a common phenomenon after people have invested a lot of time, money, or effort in something to convince themselves that it must have been worth it. Many decisions are made emotionally, and so are often rationalized retrospectively in an attempt to justify the choice"
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#25 spazzx625
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]-see cognitive dissonance-mike_me
OMG! This completely proves my point that, console fanboys, have this frame of mind. They don't have enough money to buy the 'other systems' so they convince themselves that the other systems suck, etc.

I can't afford a Ferrari but I know they don't suck :P
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#26 tocool340
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Drive a harley down the halls of your school. Shy guy no more!

sonicare
Jail bird he be....
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#27 xhellcatx
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You could try doing what my friend did a couple days ago, wearing shorts and fishnets.markop2003
.... I dont know what gender your friend is but the gender envisioned as such has now melted the happy center of my brain.
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#28 chaplainDMK
Member since 2008 • 7004 Posts

Leather Jacket & a Chopper...

You'll need bouncers to keep the chicks off of you and evrey guy will want a piece of the action and be your friend...